If the men are not interested in performing Thiruvaradhanam, women can offer flowers to the pictures and deities of Perumal and worship them.
They can chant Koodaraivalli pasuram to the Salagrama deities and mentally offer food every day; they can submit their prayers devotedly to Perumal to make the men of the household acquire an interest in performing Thiruvaradhanam and by Lord’s grace the prayers shall bear fruit.